If as a result of a long family life is your husband unexpectedly loses interest in you, it can be remedied. Experienced sexologists insist that dying sexual interest can be sparked anew. Here is how to do this.
Married Life Is a Work
We all remember that maintaining the family and your man’s undying interest in you and your own interest in your spouse is everyday work. But it should be treated not as an arduous toil but an honorable lifelong commitment. It’s even better to make it your favorite hobby. And sex in marriage is a thing you can and should work on. If you let the wedlock’s sexual part run itself, then sex is doomed to fail sooner or later.
That is why you must keep working on and on. After all, we look after ourselves, take care of our appearance and our body, practice yoga for spiritual experience, apply face masks and perfect ourselves while working and studying. Similarly, make your sex life in marriage the most exciting of all exiting things you can do, especially because of the fact sex is so healthy!
Substituting the Superfluous for the Necessary
So what should you start with if sexual relations suddenly gave you grounds for worries? Obviously, you should start with yourself. Do a monitoring study of your personal and sexual world and get rid of everything you don’t need. Or better substitute it with the same thing bearing sexy connotation.
Old pyjamas, night-gowns and old shabby bed-linen are first to go to the trash bin. And go shopping. Your wish to be stingy because of financial woes should be strangled at its birth. Today’s underwear and linen industry can offer an excellent diversity of options for you and your marriage-bed at quite reasonable price. But you should know where to stop. Hot babe style is not going to work, pick up moderately seductive dressing-gowns or night-dresses. Otherwise a sudden transition from a sweet wifey to a porn star may even scare your man. Or make him laugh. In any case, such switch will give away your seduction plans completely. But you do not want your man to get it.
Get rid of:
Medicines
Piles of antidepressants, suppositories, herpes ointments, antipyretic pills, snuffles drops and cough syrups do not promote romantic relations. Sick woman or a woman who always needs medical treatment raises nothing but compassion and irritation. Hide your medicine chest as far as possible and use medicines when no one sees you doing it. Sure if you have a flu and run a high temperature, this is a special case and we do not dwell on it.
Old Perfume
Rather leave it for your work and social events. Your smell in the bedroom should be quite uncommon, inviting and charming. Who knows for sure but try to buy a scent combined with pheromones you are sure he’ll like. They say this works.
Worn Mattress
The bed for sexual pleasures should be even, wide, with a resilient mattress and must not creak.
Factor of Excitement
Go out as often as possible with your husband. Visit your friends, go to restaurants or just take walks. Focus on your clothes, thinking through the smallest details, a carefully chosen image will set the right mood. And a woman with a mood rightly set is surrounded with such a sex appeal that it seems you can touch it.
A woman’s grace in the eyes of other men makes her more desirable. Realization that this adorable lady that makes all men that pass by gape with admiration belongs just to him works on the man better than any aphrodisiac.
Source of the image: redbookmag.com.
