10 Bad Sex Habits
- Thursday, February 21, 2008, 11:10
- Relationships
- 22 comments
Do you sometimes turn off the light before having sex, because you feel more comfortable in darkness? Do you sometimes tell your sexual partner, sex has been excellent, though you haven’t felt anything? Does having sex with your husband or boyfriend resemble a scenario you have learned by heart long ago? In this article I will tell you about 10 most wide-spread bad bed habits lots of women (their lovers as well) have and why you should get rid of them. Make your sex life more exciting and varied with these tips.
Shyness in Bed
Modesty sometimes is sometimes considered as an advantage of a woman, but in bed it’s better to forget about it because it doesn’t allow a lot of your “dreams” to come true. And not only yours, men are often as conservative as some women and don’t want to experiment. Talk to your lover about sex and try to formulate your desires clearly. Fantasies and talks about it would help to discover your sexuality.
Refusal of Quick Sex
It is known that the importance of foreplay is sometimes overestimated. Try to take the initiative and turn to more vigorous actions. Undoubtedly, your lover would appreciate your control over the situation, because sometimes there is nothing more exciting than quick sex.
The Same Sex Positions
Most couples have just a pair of permanent sexual positions. This script seems to be too out of date. This is exactly the habit which makes sex monotonous and even boring. Don’t fear to put a veto on all usual sex positions and add a little inventiveness and piquancy to your sex life.
Sex under Studied Scenario
Forget about time-management and stop planning the time of having sex. Believe that nothing would make the life of even the most pedantic yuppie more exciting as unexpected sex in an unusual place.
Sex in Darkness
Lots of women prefer to make love in darkness. There can be many reasons of it, but the first one is dissatisfaction with own appearance. Before turning off the light, think for a while: why is he going to have sex with You? Because the way you look turns him on and there’s no need to hide yourself. Men are said to love with eyes, this is why nothing can turn your lover on as much as your naked body. So, let him see you while you are having sex. This will please you both much more.
Fake Orgasm
Play is valued in theatre and cinema but you shouldn’t abuse acting in bed. If you want to flatter you lover once again and to imitate unearthly bliss, think about the risk to bid farewell to the better sex life with real orgasm. Is the game worth the candle?
Only He Initiates Sex
Forget about sex only on His initiative. Fortunately, emancipation has exceeded social frames and vigorously intruded into private life. Such developments cannot but please your lover and you must understand that to be in control of the situation is extremely pleasant.
Serious Relationships
Laugh even in bed. Don’t be too serious: having fun together not only makes you closer, but also helps avoid awkward situations.
Silence during Sex
Compliments and talks about feelings are suitable nowhere but in bed. They increase mutual interest. So, don’t be silent, it would be useful and pleasant for you both.
Loving Yourself
It’s better to think of cellulite and other body defects before a hearty meal. In bed you should forget about all your defects. At this moment you’re the Most Wanted Woman.
I’ve heard, that about 55% of women fake orgasm from time to time, about 12% have never had it! Can you imagine it???!!!
But how do you know she’s faking it?
Very easy. If the vagina is contracting then she’s coming
However, a woman usually knows how to fake that, too. Repetitive, strong, kegel exercises can “appear” to be an orgasm. Combine this with convincing faces and a very delightful sounds, and the man is fooled.
tell you what, get her worked up, give good head, then she’ll be flowing all night
I think this is the best idea and naked sex will be the best because only the lady should be naked so they feel attractive and one candel light is more then enough so all have a nice sex nite
“Compliments and talks about feelings are suitable nowhere but in bed.” ?
That’s just silliness. How can anyone trust the opinion of someone who writes something like that about relationships.
This article is really poorly written. The questions posed are interesting, but the answers are pretty bad.
And ladies, come on! Don’t fake orgasm. Orgasms feel amazing. Doesn’t it take as much effort to perfect the fake one as it would to train your body to the real one?
On a side note, guys shouldn’t be blamed for a womans inability to achieve orgasm. Practice makes perfect. Which means some solo time. It has a lot to do with the woman not being able to let go of control and relax. If she knows how to have one, she’ll use what YOU have to get one!
Hey ladies, don’t worry about your needs, or feelings, just satisfy your partner.
Be ready for sex at all times, regardless of how stimulated you may be.
Don’t worry about your body during sex, but don’t you dare forget about it at any other time fatty.
This is my summary. There really should be tips for men in there somewhere, in my experience I only have good sex with good partners. It’s a two way street. I’m lucky enough to have a sex god of a fiancee. It took a while to find someone up to my skill. *beams*
[...] You are having your first sex with a man with whom you want to build a serious relationship. Strangely enough, there are certain rules for the first night spent together. If this is not a one night stand for you, if you have serious intentions of establishing lasting relationship with this partner (like at the end of all fairy tales – and they lived happily ever after), these tips will help you avoid making serious mistakes in bed. [...]
One key factor of good sex, is being able to read their kisses. Nothing is more annoying then trying to kiss while making love and not being able to connect. If there not a good kisser from the start, dont go to bed with them,becuase chances are, it will be twice as awkward.
all this is nasty just do wat u gotta do give good head and have good sex then it is a done deal
My man can tell im coming because he feels a big gush of my juices while inside me. I love some sex!. I def agree with this article, A lot of woman dont think its important to be active while having sex, but why lay there? You cant achieve orgasm unless you move those hips ladies….gets some friction going on the love button down there. The other day i did a reverse cowgirl but layed down so everything was exposed…..he was very happy!
actually 70% of women never come while having sex with their husband.
me 100 agree with the comments #12,that is the fact !
well…. according to my experince.
most of women dosnt come bcz their partner never never gave them the feeling at least once at the time of sex
men always ignores the women’s pleasure a boy must twitch her
while having sex
one is supposed to lick her boobs, and touching the edges of vegina, making pussy extra wet,and making her believe that u r enjoying more than anything else,
do all wat makes your girl excited
once she does, she will definetly come
PS. a girl will always come after a boy.
so a boy is supposed hit her untill her last ogasm.
if u cant make you woman come
it means either u r weak enough( need to be strong) or she needs a boy like me.
bcz i always make my GF come
remember always..
i agree with manjit (“comment number 15″). thnx manjit
from personal experience, orgasm can be achieved if we can control our mind
actually sex is not just sex,its a feel of love…anytime we make love with our partner but,only with mutual understand..otherwise it goes very bad..
well,, according 2 my experience,, let your girl to have some cone,, ‘n’ she will definitely come….
Sex is an essential part of life to live long. Because it makes you energetic to work seriously on the next day. Some partners doesn’t enjoy sex because of lack of skills in both. One has to experience and share ideas for better sex among friends or experts
i agree with most of you…. it takes not only your mans work but your work too… try to imagine yourself having the big O and it normally happens… along with moving ur hips against your man… its a no brainer!!