Richer Men Are Better in Bed?
- Thursday, March 26, 2009, 18:48
- Relationships
- 3 comments
Ubiquitous physiologists have made yet another discovery about female orgasm. Leading expert at Newcastle University, England, claims women’s orgasm frequency increases with the wealth of their partners, according to The Telegraph.
Dr. Thomas Pollet explains the link by the theory of evolutionary adaptation. The theory says males and females are genetically programmed to use each other to the best advantage to ensure better environment for their kids.
Scientists propped up their assumption about the link between orgasm and income by social polls. The Chinese Health and Family Centre polled 5000 people, notably asking them about the income and sexual life. The study was largely based on the interviews of 1534 women with male partners. The results showed 121 of the women always experienced orgasm while 408 often orgasmed. Another 762 had rare orgasms while 243 never orgasmed. Similar studies conducted in Germany and America chimed in with the results.
In this connection, British physiologists refer to Playboy empire founder Hugh Hefner who in his 80s has had girlfriends 60 years younger than himself and magnate Donald Trump whose wives get younger as he gets richer. But these stories somehow seem to have another link behind them.
Source of the image: flickr.com/photos/chadwho1ders.
I wonder why.
What I find shocking is that TWICE as many women NEVER orgasmed opposed to those that always do!
Now I’ve always believed the average man is a bit of a brute, and more than a bit clueless when it comes to pleasing a woman. Personally I’ve never quite understood why men don’t educate themselves better. If a woman is enjoying sex and having orgasms it stands to reason she’s going to want sex more often, right?
Some tips for men to make them better lovers:
The most important sexual organ for men and women is the BRAIN! Explore your partner. Learn their likes and dislikes. Learn their fantasies if you can. If you can, reduce your partner’s stress level. Some people can use sex to releave stress, others can’t enjoy sex until they can get away from it.
Men can get turned on in 2 secs flat and ANYTHING and EVERYTHING will turn them on. Women don’t work that way. You need to build a connection with them. If you wait until your both in the bedroom you’ve already waited too long. Ask her how her day was and listen! Then try and memorize part of the conversation and think up a follow up question to ask the next day. It’s simple, it’s easy, and it lets the woman know you were really listening. But most importantly, when she tells you about her problems it doesn’t mean she wants you to FIX it for her. Most times she just wants someone to talk too. If you want to fix it then ask her first. It will please her even when she tells you no. *grin*
Catch and release. Learn to assess her mood, then cruise by and randomly give her a hug, nibble on her neck for a few secs then attempt to slowly disengage and wander off. If she doesn’t want to let go, that doesn’t necessarily mean she now wants sex. Go slowly. If she just wants a long hug then give her that. Women are more complex than us men. Strengthen your emotional connection with her and the sex should improve too.
Men, get some stamina in bed. You don’t have to let her orgasm first all the time, but it should be more than half. If the sex is really good for her most of the time then even when she’s not totally in the mood she’ll may engage in sex just to please you. But if you can learn to extend the foreplay, tease her right up to the edge of her orgasm, hold her there for a time, and then always let her orgasm first, followed up by some cuddling and pillow talk, you may find yourself with a sexual wildcat on your hands. And trust me, the later is COMPLETELY worth it. *LOL*
Advice for women:
Most men are uncomplicated brutes and WE DON’T READ MINDS! Don’t drop hints, come right out and tell him what you like and dislike. Write him an email if you have to, but get it out. Men like to fix problems, so make sure you tell him if you don’t want him to try and fix it.
Guys are very, very, very visual. If you were 120 lbs when you married him and now you’re 160 lbs and wondering why he seems to have lost interest in you….refer back to my first point. Guys are brutes. They may still love you, but if they can’t enjoy sex with you then there’s a high probability your relationship is already on a countdown timer. Exercise and drop the weight or you may find yourself single and trying to do it anyway.
Don’t ever, every fake an orgasm. EVER! A man can’t learn to please you if you’re deceiving him. If he’s trying hard but the mood is gone and you just need it to be over then you need to work out signal for that. Have that discussion outside the bedroom. But be careful. He’s a brute, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have self-esteem issues. You kill his self-esteem and you may kill his sex drive too.
Men get turned on by anything and everything. Use it to your advantage. If you’re walking down the street with him and you see him checking out a sexy woman with long blonde hair and high heels don’t jump onto him. Ask him if he noticed her and what he liked about her. Sometimes improving your sex life is as simple as walking into a room naked wearing nothing but a long blonde wig and the right pair of heels. LOL You’ve heard the stereotype: Guys have wild sex with bad girls, but marry and settle down with good girls. There is some truth to that. If you’re a good girl that can learn to be a little “bad” in the bedroom it will likely rev things up.
Ah, I figured it out. Most times people get rich by being smart and working hard. Also by being clever, witty and engaging -in essense understanding people and maximizing their interactions with them. Since they are smarter than average, it stands to reason they have also educated themselves in how to be better lovers.
So, in my humble opinion, it isn’t about the money at all. Smarter people have the POTENTIAL to be better lovers and more often succeed at it.