How Much Sex Do You Need?

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Honestly, how much sex do you need to be happy? Well, to be fully satisfied and, of course, with your darling? Ok, don’t say it. Because most women are going to be insincere. So were my friends whom I gave the same question. “The more, the better”, – went first one, and the rest were unanimous. I nodded out of courtesy and thought within myself that the ladies were doing their best to be in tune with the times.

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Being Nympho is the Hottest Trend

It seems that when it comes to sex (and everybody at bachelorette parties are ready to talk about their intimate achievements), we all start exaggerating: we want it all the time and we can do it all. Today’s successful woman should not only look good, drive a car and know everything about Dow Jones index but also have as much sex as possible. Having abnormal sexual desires or, at least, imitate nympho ways really seems to be the latest female trend. It won’t surprise me if soon women start writing in job applications “attend sexoholics anonymous” to express their truly active attitude towards life.

Do We Need That Much Sex?

Take sexual positions. How many positions do you know? And how many of those help you to achieve orgasm? I’m not being curious. I’m trying to make it clear. Because our obsession with acrobatic positions means something: if you have sex in unsatisfying positions, then someone needs it? And this “someone” is obviously not you. Of course, men must be excited with total “nymphonisation”. Earlier, men had to beg for sex from us, but now we are begging it from them. Is sex quantity about female happiness? Indeed, if you live with the man of your dream, why not having sex every working day and twice on weekends? Oh, it’s not enough for you to have it once a night, let’s make it five times, darling! Isn’t it exciting?! Exciting it is. But problems may follow.

Sleeping Back-to-back

Each couple experiences the same problem. First months you never get out of bed, and then the desire blunts and you end up sleeping back-to-back. I haven’t met a woman who took this change philosophically. Most women believe that this shift from once a day to once a week indicates dying relationship, so we struggle to get the previous result back. Weekend sex is like subsistence level: enough to survive but leaves you feeling more. Ask yourself – why should you need more? Are your sexual desires so high that you have to light the fire of passions every night? Of course, it is cool when your partner is doing a good job, but eventually your sexy underwear will seem boring to even most lustful lovers. Once it occurs to a man you can’t count on his strong erection. That’s because any man understands what the erotic underwear is all about – he must do his best. He “must”, you see. The truth is the relationship becomes boring not because we don’t have enough sex. It’s because we fail to enjoy sex. Woman thinks her partner needs sex everyday, so she plays a role of sex bomb. In his turn, man thinks his partner is a nympho and secretly takes Viagra pills. Finally, sex that should bring you both pleasures turns into obligation.

Indulge Yourself in Quiet Sleep

According to sex experts, even the strongest relationship does not withstand everyday sex. It is unnatural for women to have higher sexual desire than man. So if you are fed up with sexy lingerie and permanent sleepiness, just indulge yourself in quiet sleep. And don’t worry about someone else’s satisfaction. If the desire wakes up in your partner in the middle of the night, he won’t be hesitating because of your warm pyjamas and the lack of burning candles.

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14 COMMENTS

  1. That’s right, due to thousands of hollywood films where women are sex machines men expect us to be nymphos, so women play them. This is so tragic that we have to lie to men and… to ourselves.

  2. I want sex every day but I dont push my husband for it cause I will annoy him as he works a hard labour job. I masturabte 1 or 2 times a day when he is not here when our daughter is napping and that calms me down a lot.He has sex with me about 4 times a week so I cant really complain but I would prefer it every day. I am not really bothered how I get it as long as I get it everyday so dont mind if I have to do it myself sometimes.

    I orgasm easily though so of course I am going to want it. I think what you have written is ridiculous as I have always been this way but try and play it down to my husband as I know he feels under pressure sometimes. I think a lot of women out there underplay how much they need it cause their husband is tired now and again and he moans if I pester (which is understandable). What I do when he is not here though is my secret 🙂

  3. Ks you’re lucky to have such strong libido. I hardly want sex once a week 🙁 and my husband is angry at that he says I don’t want him but I just don’t want sex. I’d better sleep or reed a book or simply talk with him.

  4. absolutely not all women are that stupid to have sex or play a nympho when they actually don’t want it. just say you don’t want sex and don’t lie. neither that you do want it nor that you have headache. if your man loves you he will understand and will not insist. if not then bye-bye.

  5. If woman decides to marry man she automatically says yes every time he wants sex. No ‘headache’ helps. Headache is always a lie.

  6. Preparing to go to bed last night I took my wife (already in bed) a glass of water and an aspirin. “But I don’t have a headache” she said. “Good” I replied.

  7. i am a nymph and it has become worse in the last 5yrs. or better depending on your thinking, i suppose. i am ending a relationship now because he does not like to have sex that often. i would not fake a nympho just for the sex just like i dont fake orgasms. i have NO problems getting off. i have masturbated 15 times in one day. mostly though it is seven. i am just a highly sexual being.

  8. Been married 40 plus years and 25 years without sex.
    As you can see we really don’t need sex at all. I have ED and take meds for health issues, which totally ruined any libdo I had, which was very little.
    My wife i’m sure would like to have sex, but I remind her thats not going to happen due to the meds. I’m happy with this arrangement ! When first married sex was lousy anyway. We go about our lives as friends or room mates.

  9. we have been married for 21 yrs. he has ed and takes a pill daily for it. we have sex, but not enough for me. I use my sex toys and that helps some. i just like his dick better. i want sex everyday, lots of it. I could take it as much as he could give it. i have a very high sex drive.

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