Try to ask yourself if you blame men for most problems. Including the fact that you are single. Men are seldom attracted to women who hate them before they get to know them.

Do you play the walled up princess waiting for Prince Charming to burst in through your window on his white steed? Many men would try that, but they do not know where yo live, or your phone number. Get out more, especially where men gather… sports, motorsports, fishing… you do not need to love the activity, you only need to be interested in it a little.

Do not automatically say no. I have yet to find one woman that gives all men a reasonable chance on first meeting. The upshot of this is that I have seen all my female friends say no to rather reasonable men because they did not fit the “perfect man list”, only to watch my female friends get drunk later on that night and g home with someone much less of a catch than the man/men they turned down earlier in the evening (when they were not drunk). A few days later they all say the same thing… “there are no decent men left”. There are decent men, they just turned them down while they were sober.

NETWORK! The way people used to meet generations ago was through introductions. Yes, being introduced through friends does lead to successful marriages in my experience. It may take a while, a friend of a friend of a friend may introduce you to Mr Right.

Do not wait until your career is at a certain level. Men sometimes do this and find themselves habitually single at 40. Why try to emulate them? They aren’t happy.

Finally, get out of Dodge! Country after country women migrate into urban centers and to the coast. If you can not find a man in New York, it is probably because they are standing alone at a ballroom dance for farmers 500 miles away. Some farmers make more than the average lawyer. There are men out there, but waiting for them to come to you may be a little selfish.

Most of these arguments can be turned on single men as well, but instead of concentrating on why the arguments seem one sided, you would make better use of your time not getting worked up about the presentation… like putting on a smile, and asking your second cousin if she knows any small town guys who are single. Oh, and many men are more attracted to a pretty smile than a perfect waistline.