Comments on: 11 Don’ts for First Night with New Partner

By: Chris

Chris — Thu, 14 Apr 2011 19:21:11 +0000

That’s right, girls. “Be yourself whatever you do,” because honesty is the most important thing in a relationship.
But while you’re being yourself, you should:

1. lie about previous partners. (“If you are not a virgin anymore, invent some credible story.”)

2. suppress your natural sexuality. (“Yield to your partner,” and “try to seem shyer than you really are.”)

3. let him objectify you. (“you are his prize.”)

4. be sure to make noise, even if that’s not really your style. (“Show him that he’s doing a good job.” Because, of course, making noise is the only way you can tell him how much you’re enjoying it, girls– gripping him tightly, squirming, and making whatever facial expressions come naturally aren’t enough. It doesn’t matter whether you’re comfortable doing it, all women should moan a lot.)

…not exactly the things I’d want a girl to be thinking about. But maybe that’s just me.

By: Kerry

Kerry — Thu, 16 Dec 2010 15:33:52 +0000

I couldnt agree more with bdwild. Its about taking your time to listen to verbal and nonverbal actions. I am female, tomarrow night is going to happen, I have all the anxiety that goes with this, but I also have all the anticipation. I dont fear him, my God, I wouldnt even be considering having any contact with him. We have been friends for over 5 yrs, and it just grew. I have been married to man that i truly loved for over 20 yrs, he passed away some time ago. I have known true love, and experianced true passion and that passion is what every human being is looking for. Believe me, we all want tender and gentle. But we are talking about the first sexual encounter witha new person. My suggestion, go slow, learn each other that first time. You shouldnt be in bed with anyone you cant talk about a few awkward things. This moment will be wonderful only because this man is someone I truly want to share my body with. I am hoping this becomes a preluude to a sexual adventure. If not, he will always remain my friend. I live in a time where sex is available 24/7, but thats not what I am looking for, and have conveyed that before sex entered the picture. I want this man, and I want to please this man, inbed and out. With this kind of attitude and preparation, I believe we will experiance something truly wonderful, together! I wish passion and excite for anyone looking forward to this “first time with a new partner.” I’ll let you know.

By: Jamie Klinetob

Jamie Klinetob — Fri, 07 May 2010 19:03:50 +0000

Pretty good going, I’m going to post a quote of your article on my website (with a link back). I hope that’s ok?

By: hansa

hansa — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 05:31:05 +0000

I Think frist ……………………first

By: thula

thula — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 23:14:58 +0000

My new boyfiend is HIV positive. I love him a lot bt I’m scared I might get infected plz tell me about d do’s and don’t's. I dnt knw if on our first nyt we should discus abt dis or wat.

By: raj

raj — Sat, 08 Aug 2009 17:00:24 +0000

how true be what u are